Life Lesson
Some interesting things I learnt (old notes) will use monthly learnings for future
(retired) will use monthly learnings for future lessons
- Test
- Books to read
- Power of now
- Movies to watch
- Results
- Soul
- Nobody
- Inside out (watch again)
- Nacros-saints
- Ask more questions, really try to understand the other person. Know that you have different life experiences leading to different interpretations
- Code LUCIEFER
- I might have sunk into a situation too much
- Write a summary of all the events that happened, facts about current situation
- Create a list of pros and cons of a decision
- Create a big picture of where what decision might lead to, don’t get caught up in details
- be clear of what I want
Initial Period of Dating
- Don’t ask directly what a girl wants, she will think that I’ll pretend to be that
- figure out what she wants through other methods
- laughing too much and childish jokes will make me feel like a younger brother than partner
- Busy with life but sparing 2-3 days, shows her importance while showing not giving up on work,让自己变得充实、不内耗。
- 因为内耗浪费的是自己的时间‼️
- 慢慢来，多聊聊女生喜欢的话题，多观察对方。再从这中间的内容提取 她 的爱好、性格、三观。
- 一定要她喜欢你这个人本身表现出的感觉，而不是去问她想要什么样的人。做自己。
- don’t ask questions that are too direct, figure out her personality through conversation
- you can never change a person’s 本性
- Lily discussion on sex education
- kissing
- approach slowly, build tension
- slow kiss
- touch
- gentle, slow, little pressure
- ask for permission, can I?
- fingers curved towards front
- sex
- start slow
- 3-5min break with kiss & change pos
- kissing